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Denver Boudoir – Cheap Boudoir Photography

OoooooOoOoo I’m sure I’m going to ruffle some feathers with that title. CHEAP!? WHAT?!

Hear me out.

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Every time someone emails me with questions about a Denver boudoir session, they get a personal email back, as well as an informational email that outlines a TON of information, and answers most questions. This email also has pricing information. And I would say about half the time, I never hear back. I asked someone recently if they had any luck finding what they needed, and the response was “you’re too expensive.” I didn’t know whether to be flattered, or offended. So I asked her, what information did you find elsewhere that you decided to choose instead? She said that she was going to get the 2 hour session with unlimited outfits, and CD of unedited images for $50.

Nails on a chalkboard.

That’s what that was to me. At that point, I congratulated her on her upcoming wedding and wished her the best of luck, and we hung up. She wanted CHEAP BOUDOIR. There are so many things that I could say about this. There are so many posts about why photography costs what it does, so I will leave that to the financial experts. What I really want to focus on is the bottom line:

 

When you’re taking your clothes off in front of someone you don’t know, and putting yourself in a vulnerable position, is CHEAP really a word that you want to use to describe the experience?

There is so much that goes into this experience, believe me when I tell you that it’s not just about getting your picture taken. There is an enormous amount of preparation beforehand, on your part, and on my part. Will your cheap photographer be there to help you pick out lingerie that will flatter your figure, and talk you down when you’re nervous the night before?

Another HUGE and very scary thing to think about: PRIVACY. These are photos that are intimate in nature, and while I always keep them classy, not every photographer is like that. These are photos that, when poorly done and shared, could potentially ruin careers. Personally, I don’t think that boudoir should be as taboo as it sometimes is, but let’s face it – the entire world doesn’t necessarily feel that way. Are you willing to trust those photos to someone who A. may be kind of creepy to begin with and B. might put the photos online for God knows what? Or even worse, what if your photos are used for advertising, billboards, internet ads all over websites, without your permission? Is that savings worth the potential backlash that could come from hiring someone you don’t trust? Privacy is something I take VERY seriously, you can read my Denver boudoir privacy policy by clicking here.

I have “fixed” several boudoir sessions in the past few years. By fixed, I mean that my clients had a boudoir session done elsewhere, a “cheap” session, and hated it so much that they came to me to have some quality photos, and an amazing experience.

I believe that there are certain genres of photography that carry a higher responsibility than others. Yes, all photographers should be accountable for their quality of work, and their business ethics, but there are some photos that you will never, EVER get back. My top three: wedding, newborn and boudoir. For wedding and newborn – you never, ever get those days back. Newborn sessions usually take place when that new little life is less than 10 days old. Two weeks later, you’ve lost that newborn look, the snuggly cuddly smushy face. It’s gone, and you never get it back. Weddings are highly stressful and require a cool head, organization, and problem solving – and again, you never get that day back. When your dad hugs you a little longer as he’s giving you away to your groom, if your photographer misses that, it’s gone. Yes, you can stage it again – but it’s never really the same.

And finally, boudoir.

I could go on and on for hours about this, because it frustrates me SO much – but when you have a woman undress in front of you, she is vulnerable, and if you do a poor job or make her feel bad,

you are not only taking bad photos, but you are messing with her spirit and potentially her self worth.

You are reaffirming the thoughts that she probably already has in her head, negativity that she doesn’t need because she’s already telling herself mean things.

I refuse to lower my standards to the point where any woman walks out of my studio feeling bad about herself. Some photographers are okay with that, and some women are okay with that – and that’s okay, they aren’t my clients. I will stick to my standards and the WHY behind what I do.

One of the clients that came to me after a horrible experience elsewhere recently told me:

“When you pay cheap, you look cheap.” (Click here to tweet!)

For some things, that might be okay. Cheap toilet paper might be uncomfortable, but it won’t hurt you. Generic cereal might soak up that milk a little faster, but you’re not going to lose your job over it.

Cheap boudoir can not only hurt your feelings or your privacy, but could leave you feeling bad about yourself from an experience that should make you feel amazing.

I’m not a great fit for everyone – I totally understand that. I absolutely love my clients, we usually become friends, and some people want the assembly line, in and out type of experience. Cool, that is absolutely your choice.

My clients come into their sessions nervous, and need someone to help them walk through this. My clients are looking for an experience, a reminder that they look amazing, even on those days when they’re not feeling so hot. My clients want more than just a few sexy or questionable photos – they want an overall experience that they can remember for years, and art that they are PROUD to share with their friends, or hang on their walls.

Don’t settle for cheap when it comes to something this personal and intimate.

I have written several articles on things to consider when looking at how to hire a boudoir photographer. You can read all of them by clicking here, to get an idea of how to make sure this person that you’d like to hire is legit, and will be an awesome fit for you!

And because every post is better with a photo, here’s a sneak peek from a recent session outdoors!

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I am so privileged to be a top Denver boudoir photography specialist! My clients’ privacy is a top priority for these intimate portraits. Any and all boudoir images that are posted have been shared by the subject with written permission. I am honored that my clients choose to share their images with the world, and talk about their experiences with those images.

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By | 2016-11-29T20:05:41+00:00 August 5th, 2013|Boudoir Photography, Tips and Tricks|75 Comments

About the Author:

Hey there, I'm Brooke! I'm an international award-winning boudoir & women's photographer based in Colorado, shooting worldwide. I specialize in women and couples, reminding people of connections. Whether that connection is with your Love, or that hot chick inside that used to dance on tables in college - my shoots are fun and relaxed, and I love to laugh. My Denver boudoir photography studio has hosted thousands of women, focusing on bringing out the sexy confidence that gets buried under everyday stuff! Boudoir photos aren't just for supermodels! I love to teach and am very active on social media, please email me at brooke@brookesummer.com to get in touch!   Additional Information:   Brooke Summer Photography offers Denver boudoir photography, Colorado wedding photography, and worldwide destination photography. Brooke Summer Photography captures real moments, unique portraits, and focuses on helping women to feel gorgeous. Brooke's expertise not only results in gorgeous, sexy and classy boudoir, but provides a client experience that is unique and hands on. My clients' privacy is a top priority for intimate portraits. Any and all boudoir images that are posted have been shared by the subject with written permission. I am honored that my clients choose to share their images with the world, and talk about their experiences with those images.

75 Comments

  1. Danea August 5, 2013 at 11:36 pm - Reply

    This is fantastic and I am totally going to link to this article!!

  2. kim hill August 5, 2013 at 11:45 pm - Reply

    Fabulous post. You summed up what I have tried telling potential clients in such a forthright way.

  3. Candice August 6, 2013 at 12:27 am - Reply

    Well said and OH so true! I honestly couldn’t have said it better myself (I know because I’ve tried). I’m just gonna refer people to this post from now on… :)

  4. Linda August 6, 2013 at 1:28 am - Reply

    I am not a boudoir photographer but I completely agree with you 100% about not cheaping out on boudoir because your photos will look cheap and trashy. I have seen some amazing boudoir photography and sadly I have also seen some horrible boudoir photos. And I completely agree that one should never cheap out on newborn or wedding photography either. Don’t sell yourself short, especially when they are photos of you, ya know?

  5. Shelley August 6, 2013 at 8:37 am - Reply

    Couldn’t agree with you more! If only all women realised this!

  6. Jennifer August 6, 2013 at 10:06 pm - Reply

    May I please link to this on my blog, you really hit the nail on the head and I don’t think I could say it any better.

  7. […] Several weeks ago,  I did a podcast about hiring a photographer.   From that podcast I received several people saying that they agree with me or disagree with my point of view!  Which is fine,  I take the good with the bad and don’t have a problem with it whatsoever.  I know I can’t please all of the people all of the time.   I recently read a blog post by Brooke Summer, a fellow Boudoir Photographer based out of Denver Colorado.  You can read the entire blog post here. […]

  8. Anne August 7, 2013 at 5:25 pm - Reply

    Very well said!

  9. Ginger August 12, 2013 at 3:47 pm - Reply

    Love this Brooke! Thanks for posting. This is true with so many things. Do your research and get the absolute best your money can buy.

  10. Chantal August 15, 2013 at 4:25 am - Reply

    Wow, thank you for writing this so beautifully. Its so true, I always feel its more about the experience and making the ladies feel beautiful and sexy than anything else!

  11. […] Brooke Summer recently wrote a post about “Cheap Boudoir” and what it really means. “When you’re taking your clothes off in front of someone you don’t know, is CHEAP really a word that you want to use to describe the experience?” Kind of a scary thought, no? This post has been shared all over the world, and struck a chord with photographers and clients alike! […]

  12. Hilary Mercer September 25, 2013 at 1:18 pm - Reply

    Amen. :)

  13. Randy September 26, 2013 at 12:07 pm - Reply

    I could not agree more.

    A quality product for this level of intimacy is vital!

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